Question Posted Saturday September 1 2007, 3:25 pm
13/f, I love to sing, but I decided to some videos of my singing on youtube. Bad idea. There's this guy who been harassing(sp) me. He says that I'm the worst singer on Youtube. How can that be? Youtube is world-wide. I don't think that everyone in the world thinks that I suck. But, now I want to sing anymore. I love to sing in all. But I have no more self-esteem left in my body. It's all been chopped off one by one. I sound like a drama queen, i know, but I'm serious. I have no self esteem left. What should I do? Should I stop singing, or just ignore that one guy and continue singing now knowing if I suck or not? Please someone help me.
twistedsister17 answered Saturday September 1 2007, 9:14 pm: Ignore the guy...he probably thinks you're hot, and that's his way of showing it. Haha. There are a lot of idiots in the world, and you just have to learn to deal with them. You are eventually going to come across more stupid people like this guy in your life. What you have to remember is, the only opinion that matters is YOURS. Keep doing what YOU want to do, and what makes YOU happy. You're probably a good singer, like I said, this guy is just an immature jerk, but even if you're not the best singer in the world, you're learning, you'll get better. You just need to stay confident and determined if this is something you really want to do. As for the guy who's bugging you, you might be able to report him to YouTube. No matter what, don't give in to some random jerk who probably has nothing better to do than harass you. Don't be afraid of this guy, stick up for yourself. How would he know if you're good or not anyways? Is he like an EXPERT in singing? Did he go to college for it? And can HE even sing? You should ask him this, I bet it'd make him feel really stupid. But either way, keep doing what you want to do. And if the guy keeps bothering you, send me his link and I will knock some sense into him. (Hahaha, just kidding, but I am really quite good at arguing with people.) Hope I helped! :) [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
DJzmAgUy426 answered Saturday September 1 2007, 9:07 pm: Oh my God, no! If that's something you enjoy doing, who cares what ONE guy thinks?! It's the same thing with me, only at least you had the courage to make a video, but if singing makes me happy, I do it no matter who's around, and if someone doesn't like it, it really helps to laugh it off. Personally, I think you should continue posting your videos and if it helps any, I'd love to listen and provide some feedback [I'm a really nice person], it would really be my pleasure, but only if you'd like. Don't pay attention to what one guy has to say. Who the heck told him to click on your video anyway? If I'm not wrong, I believe you can report him. Really hope I helped =]. [ DJzmAgUy426's advice column | Ask DJzmAgUy426 A Question ]
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