Additional info, added Saturday September 1 2007, 12:43 pm: i mostly use a vibrator..ive tried fingering myself before but it just dosent feel pleasureable...my friend has told me thats shes had and orgasim before...so when you finger yourself do you slide a finger in and out really fast??? is so please tell me!<3
i mastrubate untill i am really horny, then finger my self real hard do it at the top were your g spot is and it works, no need for vibrators and, are you a lesbian because i want lesbian sex, and how old are you message me back
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SinDelle answered Saturday September 1 2007, 8:42 pm: It seems like maybe you're concentrating a little too hard on it. That can make it harder to achieve an orgasm.
A vibrator is a great tool for self-pleasure but they can be tricky. Sometimes you have to hit just the right spot. Where are you using it? The trigger for female orgasm is the clitoris, which is just above your vaginal opening and just below your urethra (where your pee comes out). If you didn't know that, don't feel stupid. A lot of people don't. Try turning the vibrator on and placing it against the area I just described (just above your vaginal opening, not inside your vagina) and see what happens. Also, the most sexual organ is the mind. What are you thinking about when you do it? Try just relaxing and thinking about whatever excites you. Most people have an ongoing fantasy that they use when they masturbate. I know this sounds really clinical but it's true. And sometimes they try one and it doesn't work. Masturbation is a very personal thing, as are sexual fantasies and only you can know what excites you.
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Cmilner1607 answered Saturday September 1 2007, 12:30 pm: sometimes if you masturbate you have to be really into it to orgasm. & others can only orgasm during intercourse. it jut depends on how into it you are and your mood of things. when you do orgasm, you'll know trust me. :] [ Cmilner1607's advice column | Ask Cmilner1607 A Question ]
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