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big boy problems
I NEED HELP SOOO BADLY!! my love life is going down the drains. I'm 14/f and starting high school in 1 week. In middle school, my love life was great cause I had a crush on this guy for 2 years and he knew and we flirted a little but we were both shy and never asked each other out. (i'm not the slutty type of gal who trys to get a boyfriend at the age of 14) and I was fine with not having a boyfriend.
Then when this summer start, my best friend introduced me to one of her guy friends (well call him first guy) (they were on and off dating and finally broke up for good about 2 weeks ago)... One time when I hung out with him he brought along his best friend, and to my surprise it was the guy that i've had a crush on for 2 years. and I like them both!!!!
the first guy= he's sending me mixed signals. we both have texting so we text each other a lot. he keeps wanting to hang out with me (movies) and if i say i'm busy, then he'll keep asking me what day i can go to the movies with. I get all happy cause I think he's flirting with me and that he likes me, then BAM he sends a text saying he asked out this girl yesterday and she said yes. so my self-esteem went down faster than a roller coaster. :(
crush for 2 years- he recently broke up with his girlfriend, my guy friend texted me and told me that my crush says he likes me too, but doesn't want a girlfriend right at this moment... But to tell you the truth, i'm not even sure if I still like this guy. whenever his name comes up in my head, i smile and imagine myself next to him all safe and everything... but then i think to myself, what do i exactly like about him, and my mine just goes blank. i dont know what's wrong with me!! i half like him/half don't
help! I need advice on what to do about my situation. should i just forget about them both and look for another guy? should i go for my guy friend, or my crush for 2 years? please help me
-sincerely, mixed signals
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i think you should just relax and if you dont have feelings for none then dont dat none because tht boy u said that he txt messaging you all the time that he asked out this girl...
honestly hese probably tryin to confuse you
Or most likly
he likes you as a friennd..
because most guys have this Mojo that they lead on girls lol
haha bye
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Take a deep breath hun. You aren't really that into either of them right? So don't stress over it. Don't 'go' for either of them.
You don't need to have a boyfriend now anymore then you needed to have one last year. So don't stress out over what you are going to do. They ball is in thier court now. You are fine to be friends with them, and sit back and see what they do.
All you need to figure out, when and if you do get asked out, is whether or not you want to say yes.
It certainly doesn't sound like you have strong enough feelings for either of them to ask one of them out yourself. So just chill out. Take it as it comes. You are doing just fine.
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