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friendship in trouble?
hey im 13yr old girl and i think i might have ruined a awesome friendship.
i met this guy at summer camp and he was funny and sarcastic (so am i) and just a great guy friend. we got pretty close and all when i rescued him from a crazy stalker crush. but then i started to get feelings for him. i told him about then and kinda weirded him out.
now our friendship is kinda strained and we used to talk about nothing and now its hard to find something to talk about.
what should i do???
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You should talk to him and ask him how he feels about this whole situation. It's really hard to talk to a 13 year old guy about this kind of stuff, though, because they mature slower than girls. So I can see why he was weirded out by your comments, because most guys at that age aren't really into the "sharing your feelings" type of gimmick, when girls at that age are.
I tell him something like, "Can we not let this get in the way of our great friendship? I didn't know that you didn't want to talk about that subject, and I'm really sorry. I hope that we can start over."
It wasn't your fault for sharing your feelings with him, but guys at this age aren't into that sort of stuff...
If you need anymore help, just ask, I'm here for ya! :)
-Mariah-
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