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i like guys but
okay so i do like guys i want to date them and make out with them and so and so, but whenever i see a picture of a hot girl on myspace or something i like it i guess.
i couldnt think of anything better to say.
but i don't like girls.
because then i would want to like kiss my friends or girls at school and i don't.
is that normal?
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It's not normal for your age really, but it is very normal. As you mature, you get a sense for what is attractive and beautiful. In order to be bisexual or homosexual you would need to want to have sex with girls, which is completely different from being mature enough to look at a girl and think "that's kinda hot". What you have is more of an appreciation of the female body and an understanding of what's attractive than anything. It's intellectual, not sexual.
Even though you may feel a little turned on by the pictures, anything related to sex turns people on. Seriously. If you watch animals have sex on the Discovery Channel it could turn you on. That in no way means that you want to have sex with animals, that's nasty and completely wrong! What happens is, them having sex makes you think about sex, which triggers something in your body, not your mind at all.
Try not to worry about what sexuality you are. It's very complex and you probably know until you're in your 20's or maybe even older. At 15, your mind isn't fully developed yet, making it almost impossible to figure stuff like this out. There's really no reason to put a label on yourself. It will only confuse you further. For now just define yourself by what you do. If anybody asks, just say you're straight to avoid all the bad stuff that can come from your immature middle/high school peers thinking you're not.
As for the boyfriend troubles, don't worry. I know it's hard, but you will start dating eventually. I didn't go on my first date until I was 18 and I turned out just fine. I actually found out later that a lot of people had thought that I was a lesbian. Starting to date at a later age has nothing to do with your sexuality. Nothing at all. So don't worry about that. :)
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Yes, this is normal. You are currently going through puberty. During puberty you have hormones running around your body throwing things out of wack. You hormones are causing you to have these attractions towards girls. You'll probably grow out of it.
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