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im in a fight with my bff but its not my fault!


Question Posted Thursday August 30 2007, 5:20 pm

Well me and my friend Megg were ultimate Best friends and there is this named Ally, well I found out that ally got on meggs myspace and moved me all the way down on her friends and put herself #1 ( i used to be #1) Ally also put all this stuff about how close the two of them are, trying to make me jelous. So I kept calling Megg to see what was up and she never picked up her phone so I figured she was mad at me, but when I finnally talked to her on the phone I told her i though it was ally and she wouldnt believe me! So she said it was her brothers friend... I wouldnt buy it though. I know ally wanted me and megg to get in a fight so ally and meg could hang out more often. Well Ally got what she wanted! Megg told me on the phone that she wasnt mad at me and if she was she would tell me and not ignore me! But boy was she lying!! My other friend 3 wayed them and i was on mute and they were talking so much trash about me! Saying that I was annoying and stuff, when all i ever did was ask megg if she was mad at me! So now i dont know what i should do, because I really miss hanging out with megg cuz shes my best firend and we always had so much fun together, but i know she was talking about mme and lying to me, so...?? should i try to make up - even thought it wasnt my fault it was ally`s? Or should I ... well i dont know. Help please!
I`m 14 by the way.


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christina answered Friday August 31 2007, 6:11 am:
I'm gonna tell you now - learn this lesson & learn it quick!


People are going to talk about you. Whether it be your best friend, your sister, your cousin, someone you don't know - it's going to happen. And you need to accept it. People have talked about me SO much and I honestly don't care. If people hate me for no reason or whatever, then fuck them! I've got better shit to do than be friends with two-faced people.


If your friend is going to talk trash about you & make you seem like some horrible person, then she was obviously never your friend to begin with & only stuck around because she felt like she had to. Or maybe she was just a bitch. Anyways, it doesn't matter. But honestly, stop being friends with this girl. You can be friends with MUCH better people.

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grkadvisor answered Friday August 31 2007, 4:30 am:
let me tell you something if a person talks behind your back at some point there gonna do it again and probably hurt you really bad she aint a true friend just two faced youll see alot of people like that in life

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