is it wrong to love/like someone who is younger than you?
Question Posted Tuesday August 28 2007, 12:21 am
I'm eighteen and i have an uncle who's kids are like my cousin and one of them is 14,13 i think dont remember excatly, but i went on vaction to see my cuzins well uncle who has kids who happens to be my cousin's and me and the person i like is 14,13 year old we always hangout togher and everyhthing i do like him like him alot and since i dont get to see him tell next yr and he lives seven hrs away but i can still call and text him onces a month b/c of the money and all is it wrong to like really like someone? he did tell me he loves me and that he will miss me and said to call me and his sis every month and all. what should i do i do really love him but i dont want it to feel as it's wrong.
plus i told my mom not about him but like make an excuse to see if it can happen about the cousin thing and she said it can but i was going to tell her but didn't and not going to until everything is ok with me and him what should i do i need help with advice asap.
plus i never had this feeling for someone before never this is like my first time ever.
yes i did have crushes on guys but not like this
soooo sorry for the longest longest messsage ever and please help me asap please dying for advice on this one
karenR answered Tuesday August 28 2007, 7:26 pm: At 18 you are considered an adult. 13 year olds are children. So do not even begin to think of him as a love interest. Its illegal.
You can like him as a cousin, but that is all.
You would be waiting years for him to be old
enough to even think of dating him. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
blackrose13 answered Tuesday August 28 2007, 7:18 pm: awwww!! ..:/ well im sure Your feelings are deep
i can tell
and no it isnt wronge for you to like a 13 year old but i think that he takes you more like a sister than a lover.. thats what i think im sorry but you know im not saying its easy for you to get over him but like.. hese still going through his teenage life.. you know what im saying?? i think that you should find somone with a bit more open mind..
hope i helped.And i know its not what you wanted to hear
sorry
bye [ blackrose13's advice column | Ask blackrose13 A Question ]
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