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What should I do with my old boyfriend?
Hi Erin (:
ok so i went out with my old boyfriend for about 7 months. it was the best 7 of my life and i was TOTALLY in love with him. like i cant even explain. we broke up about a month ago and two days before my brothers wedding he broke up with me. he claimed he still had feelings for me so we went to the wedding together and had a great time. on the way to taking him home he held my hand and kissed me and i had my hopes up again. then the next day we hung out cause he wanted to and we ended up making out and he goes home and tells me he just wants to be friends. all of this is over the internet which was totally lame. and i didnt talk to him for about a month and then i have to sit behind him in studyhall. kinda bummerish. but then we starting talking because his computer got fixed. i was starting to get over him and being myself again but then we talked and i feel in love just even more. and he told me his mind was changing about things so i just got my hopes up even more. then i tell him how i felt that i miss him and would do anything to get back with him and he says that he still thinks about me all the time especially when hes horny (yeah we had sex =/) and he tells me that he always thinks about me and the memories we have together but that he has friends with benefits now (and i dont know if he means sex by that) and that he wants 4 years of highschool being able to do whatever he wants with no one to hold him back. i was really upset and ive been trying to get over him and all but its just not working. its been a month + and i still have strong feelings for this guy. like ive even tried making out with another guy to see if it would get me over my old boyfriend. it worked for a while then everything died again. what should i do? i mean i know i should get over him but i've tried im just too deep in love. help please?
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well do what hes doing for a little while maybe, and then you will find someone else. sex, yeah thats not the best thing to do exspecially when you are just starting high school or whatever.and its really a bummer having to see him everyday now, that makes it raelly hard to get over him.. but try to meet other guys, you dont need friends with benefits, and you deffinatly SHOULD NOT have sex yet. and if you look for other guys you will eventually find one, one waaaay better than him.
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thankss (:
erin
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