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okay, this might be kind of long.
alright- i have a boyfriend. lets call him N. well me and N have been together almost 2 months, but have been dating for about 3 1/2. We've been great, the ideal couple. No fights, my friends and family love him. He's even been on a road trip with me and my family. But these pasts couple of weeks, he's barely called and i haven't even seen him in 2 weeks. I've even almost gotten to the point where i was about to call it quits. But the truth is, i don't want to. and i know he doesn't want it either. he doesn't even really give me a reason why he hasn't really talked to me.. i love this boy he's my rock, my backbone, hes just amazing.
but while he doesnt talk to me, theres this guy at school, H. H is really cute, and way too tempting. i've never cheated on anybody, nor will i ever. but i don't want to screw up things with N. i screw up most of my relationships, and i dont want to lose him. H is always coming up to me and flirtingly pushing and stuff and we have 4th period together. he was sitting in front of me and turned around and about kissed me. even the girl next to us thught he was going to. i know even if i left N for H, H wouldn't be that great of a boyfriend to me..(he's kind of cocky and a player bc hes new to my school this year) but i don't know.. in a wierd way i like it.
anyways, i really like N but my feelings go back and forth.. sometimes i'm just SO mad he doesnt call as much, or i don't see him as often(he goes to our rival school) but when i see him or have a long talk with him, i'm so in love, and i feel it. but when i'm at school with H, i forget completely about N.
please help me, i don't know what to do at all, please.
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hmm thats a tough situation and i would try to talk to N about it and try calling him sometimes tell him you miss talking to him and spend more time with him if you feel like you've lost connection things probably wont work out but i wouldnt let H or your tempations mess things up just yet . it could most likely be that H doesnt really like you and hes a big player just looking for a victim but if it seems things are going good for you and H like frindship wise and if you trust him then follow your heart and choose the guy you fell most connected to.
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