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obsessed??
okay so this guy that used to like me said like just now that he doesnt like me anymore.. and he said cause he thinks im obsessed with him.. but like im not.. i was texting him a lot becasue i was on vacation and was bored.. and so now he thinks im obsessed with him.. and thats why he doesnt like me.. but i want to prove to him that im not obsessed and its just casue i was bored that one time.. so how can i do that?? and i really want him to like me again.
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Lay off of him for a few weeks and explain why you were texting him so much.
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I say you ignore him, he's an idiot for thinking your obsessed just for sending text messages.
But if you REALLY like him, just don't talk to him as much anymore and maybe he'll start talking to you.
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You can't unring a bell, girlie.
No matter how hard you try, you can't undo it, and can't convince him otherwise. It would take him actually talking to you, in order for you to explain you were bored texted him to pass the time.
Apparently though, if he doesn't like you any more over something so stupid as that-- then he was looking for an easy way out to break up. You gave it o him, as dumb as it is.
No playing hard to get, no seeing another guy to "get him jealous" and no amount of games-- will get him back.
Why would you want to? He used a minor texting as an excuse to break up! Did he participate and text you back? So he is just as "obssessive" as he said you were.
Geez! Forget the jerk-- he wanted to break up. Any guy that really likes you, would have been happy "chatting" by text!
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Well, to be frank, I don't think this guy's worth it, but if you insist...
Don't talk to him incessantly for a while.
Just a hi here and there. Maybe a short homework question. Nothing more. Basically 89% ignore him. And if he has the sense to make the first move to strike up a conversation, go ahead, but you should never really lead it or start one for a while. Just lay low. Don't try to lengthen conversations and if he doesn't take the effort to lengthen it, leave it at that. Basically, play hard to get. Haha.
Emily
15/f
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