|
where do we stand?
14/f
k well me and this guy (16) broke up like 2 weeks ago (cuz of the distance because i had to go back home to another city than which he was in) and three days after the break up i was totally over him i was ok with not being his girlfriend any more. but then a week and a half after it he started talkin to me again we flirted and messed around (nothing sexual...yet) then he tells me he wants to have sex with me again. and i'm all like no we broke up and i don't do that friends with benifites kind of relationships. i mean yea he's a cool and a hott guy but it's like i could easily go out with another guy. i made an effort to let him live his life and then he calls me over the next day when he's kicking it with his friends.
@ this point i know that he knows he not getting any but he still wants to kick it. i know that because we've broken up before and i stuck to that whole non f/b thing. but we flirt more and he kept on holding me like we were still going out. & that night was gonna be my last night seeing him though so i decided maybe i should do it with him one last time and so we did.he was totally shocked.
later that night he visits again and we just talk and hang out and to me it's really confusing!!
i just wanna know where me and this guy stand what kind of relationship we are in and just ur opinions =]
thank you =]
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Instead of asking us what kind of a relationship this is you should be determining it yourself.
Currently you are in a relationship where with enough cajoling he can still use you for sex.
If you want to change that, the balls kinda in your court.
]
Maybe you should ask HIM where you stand? Do you mind having a long distance relationship with him? If you want to you should let him know and see if he feels the same way. If you just wanted to mess around with him one more time for some closure, you should tell him that you want to be strictly friends with him. He should respect your decision, and even if you two continue flirting, messing around with him after you decided to just be friends would be confusing for him AND you. When two people have a history..its very tempting to remember the good old times and just give in to temptation..but trust me, it makes things messy. But you should definitely let him know how you feel, and ask what he wants from you.
]
More Questions: |