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This is making me feel stupid!!!
i feel really stupid right about now. Because this guy that I really like. WEll he tALKS TO ME AND STUFF. He shows me that he likes me. I know that he likes me but he's messing me up. He makes me feel stupid because he'll act like he wants me so bad and yeah. Then he'll go away and wont talk to me. So I feel very stupid. I'm 14 and I'm not used to this stuff. Guys are so confusing. I think about him all the time. I just want him. Thats all. He has to make it difficult. although I couldnt really picture myself with him. It would be amazing if it was possible at all.
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It sounds like he's messing you around, and if he is, no matter how much you like him, he's not worth it, and you deserve better. My best friend really likes a guy and is having the same problem, and she's decided not to go after him because he's just messing her around.
However, although it sounds that way, he might not be, he might be confused about his feelings for you which is why he is acting like he wants you and then pulling away. He might be scared or nervous of getting into relationships, which could also be the reason.
I think the best thing to do is carry on getting to know him, try to be friends, but still flirt a bit.
When you know him better, ask him straight out how he feels about you. It sounds hard, but you owe it to yourself to find out. You need to know where you stand. Tell him that sometimes it feels like he likes you but at other times it seems like he doesn't. Ask whether he genuinely likes you or if he's just playing a game. If he says he likes you, then tell him you like him and see where it goes on from there.
Maybe try to spend more time alone with each other and just see how it goes.
I hope I helped and message me to tell me how it goes =]
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Ha Ha, yeah I agree.. boys are crazy and confusing. But what he is doing is sending you mixed signals. And hon, that means that he likes you... A LOT.
He's actually playing hard to get. and thats when he's showing that he likes you, but then doesn't talk to you for a while, making you want more of him... and his plan is working! Right now, you are dreaming of him.. arn't you?? You want him so badly, don't you??
Well, he had his fun, so you can have fun too. If you like him, try flirting with him and be all sweet and stuff, then when he is trying to talk to you, switch into the "ignoring" mode and don't talk to him for a while. ya know what i mean?
Make HIM want more...
-volleyball2150
PS: if you keep doing this, hopefully one of you will get sooo annoyed of this and will say something. Then you 2 can go out!
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