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Another Love Question
14/f
so i have been friends with these 4 boys for like ever.
and i didnt see them at all last fall but we hang out all the time in the summer.
and i think i have a crush on one of them.
but the thing is, its pretty obvious that his little brother has a crush on me.
I think the guy i like likes me back because we constantly flirt.
and i dont want to ruin our friendship so what do i do?
and also, hes really small and tiny and im tall so would that like affect anything?
thankss
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You should ask him if he wants to hang out one-on-one sometime..like go to a movie or whatever you 5 usually do, but make sure its just the two of you. Then when you flirt with him during the one-on-one time, and show him you're interested without actually telling him, he will feel more encouraged to make a move on you..ask you out, kiss you, whatever his style is. If he is shy and you don't think he's going to make a move, then tell him that you have "more than friend" feelings and that you want to hang out with him more.
Don't worry about his little brother liking you..when younger boys admire older girls, most of them know that their admiration isn't going to go very far. He might be jealous of his brother, but he might also encourage his brother to go for you, and look up to his brother.
And don't worry about his size. My boyfriend is the same height as me and its definitely not a problem for him. As long as you're not bothered by it, he probably won't be either.
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I went though the same thing but he didn't have a little brother. Well what I did,is have one of my other guy friends,tell him for me so I wouldn't have to get hurt by his face expresstion. But he came and talked to me about it. And I told him because I thought he liked me back. Me and him where flirting for like ever. So then I asked him out,I know the girl shouldn't ask but he wasn't even going to ask me because he was to shy. But I did,and he said yes. Me and him lasted 5.5 months,not that long but thats because we went to different schools,but lived on the same street.Enough about me,well if you're shy,like me ask one of your other guy friends that's like close to you and him and have that other guy tell him for you. But if you're not shy,just tell him the truth the longer you hold it in it'll bug you more and more. And I don't think it'll ruin your friendship because this other guy I dated that was like my best guy friend,we broke up and now we're like best friends. So give it a shot,if you dont really want to ruin the friendship then you wont.
and it doesn't matter what size you and him are,as long as you guys like eachother theres nothing wrong with that,I've dated a guy shorter than me and it didn't feel any different than dating a guy taller.
I hope I helped.
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