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about a boy
this summer I worked at my town's summer rec program watching the kiddoes and stuff. and there was this guy who worked there too, and I liked him and I got the feeling that he liked me too. then last week it got to be time for the rec program to be over for the year. I thought he was going to say something to me that on that day, you know asking me out or something. but he didn't and I was too shy to say anything to him and now I'm really mad at myself because it was really a no risk situation. he doesn't even go to my school so its not like I would have to see him every day if he didn't like me or whatever. So now I'm not sure what to do. I know he works at this grocery store around here so I'm considering going there when he's working and talking to him then. so my questions are
1. is that a bad idea?
2. if its not a bad idea, what exactly should I say? i can't really just walk up to him and be like, hey I like you.
3. if it is a bad idea, what should I do instead?
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no, it's definitely a good idea!! if you don't make a move, then you'll probably just regret not doing it. and plus, guys love love love confidence in a girl, and going there and "running into him" would probably really make him happy. if you got the gut feeling that he liked you back, then chances are, he did! just try to spot him, then, as i said, casually "see" him and be like "oh, hey!" you know, just strike up a conversation, ask what he's up to lately and stuff.
good luck!! :) remember, just be confident, and he will totally pick up on that.
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I don't think it's a bad idea at all actually. If you're interested in him, why not take a chance?? He'll probably be really flattered that you took the time out of your day to stop in & say hi. You don't want to be wondering "oh what if I went & saw him" because you could date & what not. So, it would be a good idea to go. If you see him, wave & casually start talking to him. Ask him how his summer went, what he did, if he's excited to go back to school, classes he's taking, etc. Just be friendly & listen to him. If it goes well, then you can throw in "hey maybe we should hang out sometime" or something. You probably shouldn't approach him just to tell him you like him. Ask him to hang out with you first. Maybe to dinner, bowling, miniature golfing, shopping, movies, etc. It doesn't have to be the two of you either if you think it'll be awkward. Make it into a group date. He can bring his friends & you could bring your friends.
-hope that helped!♥
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