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My 2 friends
Ok I have this 1 friend,we'll call her 'a' she ment the world to me and except alot of times she makes me really mad and sometimes she makes me heartbroken enough to where I cry. She knows that I'm upset but she ends up not caring since she knows I will be her friend still. But also there is this other girl that is my friend, we'll call her 'b' I talk to her on the phone and email her alot but we don't hang out alot. But we are still good friends. Well Weds. we hung out since a wasn't there so we hung out that time. b isn't really as trustworthy and so I've been telling her that I don't like any guy, well she believes me. My other friend knows I like someone and she knows who, I just keep on denying it because I don't want anyone to know. And now I really don't want her to know because she talked to b the today without me knowing I guess and a said that I do like someone because I was staring at the yearbook at the guy I liked. She didn't say who but she knows I am trying to keep it a secret and she isn't helping. She also doesn't want b to know hers either, I have been covering hers up for the longest time and she is opening mine up. What am I supposed to do? Sorry it was long
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I don't think A or B are trustworthy people.
With A it sounds like she's just telling EVERYONE your crush, I mean if she's telling B then she could be telling someone else. A is just in my opinion taking you as a friend for granted.
It's right for you not to tell B about who your crush is. Usually when people want to be closer friends they want to see how much trust eachother has, and they want to know you better. If you don't know her that well then you have a right to not feel guilty about not telling her.
I think A telling B about your crush is a real b**** thing to do. Thats not being a friend on any purpose thats just being low. I think you need to confront A and tell her to stop telling your secrets to people. Explain to her the purpose of her being a friend.
I wouldn't trust A anymore unless she proves herself worthy enough. Other then that try to make new friends? Just new people who you can trust better.
Good Luck.
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