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So there was this guy at work who I thought was adorable and I really wanted to get to know him but I had this issue where I didn't want to be overtally nice around him because I didn't want to appear cheesy. Eventually he started talking to me and we would strike up conversations. At work he would constantly walk by and rub up against me or would put his arm around me or I would sometimes catch him staring at me. He was even the first person to notice I had gotten my hair cut. He was constantly flirting with me and I thought that I was getting somewhere with him, then we'd have moments where we would just stop talking and stare at eachother and I kept expecting he would ask me for my number to hang out. But he never did. So finally one day I got the courage to call him up and ask him if he wanted to hang out and maybe go out to eat before he left for school. He said yes, but didn't seem too excited when I asked. Then I worked with him 2 days in a row before our "date" and he hardly said a word to me. Then when we did go out to eat(which he even forgot that we were supposed to hang out) it was awkward and he really didn't seem comfortable. I asked him questions about school and his plans to try to show him that I was interested in him and wanted to get to know him. We ended up splitting the check and he left abruptly... but not before inviting me to a party the next day. I don't understand what I did wrong. And if he didn't like me then why would he invite me to a party the next day? I need advice... please....
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if you like him and you think he likes you go to the party with him, let the his friends know you came with him. and make sure he knows you came for him. when you guys are just sitting around or whatever hold his hand.(i know i wont hold your hand unless your my girl or kid). if he takes your hand thats that good shit. dont ask him about school ask him stuff about him and his family. and just keep giving hints your trying to get closer with him.
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This guy may be just a tease. Some people love to flirt and send out messages that theyre interested in you but when you start liking them..they pull away. Its a physcological game that is completely dumb in my opinion. You're too easy for him..no catch..soo if hes playing that game..then you why dont you play it too. And that party..tell him that you might come..see what he does. And about the moments that you stop talking..you guys are at work..soo maybe hes just trying to do his job with no distractions.
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