|
cheated on
17/f
I was dating my boyfriend for about a year and half when he cheated on me. He didn't just kiss another girl or hang out with her but he had sex with her at a party after we had had a fight. He didn't even tell me and i had to find out from the girl herself. She didn't even know i was hius girlfriend and she asked me to give him his ring that he left at her house.( the ring was a promise ring we gave to eachother awhile ago) up until this happened i thought i could spend the rest of my life with him. I haven't talked to him since but he is always with my brothers. I just don't know if he went so far that i should throw away everything we had. Where is the line of going to far to be forgiven? Do i just give up and say let's be friends?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I'm sorry you're put into this situation. But alot of questions are important here. Was this the first and only time he cheated? If it was more than once, please end it immediately. Ever hear of "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."? Did you let him give you an explanation? It might be heard to hear, but letting him explain to you everything might give you a better understanding. Is he friends with this girl or did he ever like her? If it's a yes to being friends, I think it's fair to tell him "If were going to try and make this work, I would appreciate you not being friends with her or contacting her." If she's an ex gf of his or someone he's liked, it's better to end the relationship because it will probably happen again. You have to let him know it's unacceptable and ask him to put himself in YOUR shoes and how it must feel. Is he trying to reach you? Is he begging for you? If he is, he truly cares. Give him a chance and see how things go from there. If he's just letting things flow, he's not worth it. Take a day or two to make up your mind.
]
More Questions: |