I have a friend, lets call him nick.
Well ive been through thick and thin with him.
never had i been attracted to him. i just
always wanted to be best friends.
you know how you cant control who you like?
yeah well, i recently find myself thinking of him
all the time. Doing things that i would hope he
would notice. But i dont want to like him. Why? Becuase i jsut want to have a GOOD guy friend like him. When we hangout, its like were just friends, and i dont get all gushy and stuff when im around. but when were not together i do get all those butterflies. SOOOOO.
do you think i like him?
should i start a relationship with him
even though i dont want to like him,
but i cant help it?
what should i do?
tell him?
Nick sounds like a really great guy. I dnt think that you have reached the level of like yet. But it is possible that it will reach there. You said that you dont get gushy around him, so i would guarantee a strong feeling towards him in that manner. I think that because you two have hung out so often, and are really close, that your just used to having his company so its like..."your alone". If things start to heat up between you two then go for the point girl! But if not....then just keep it on a low key.
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