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betrayal ?
hey, i hope someone can help me ..
well the night before last night i was at a friends party and this guy kissed me .. and one of my best friends likes this guy. she told me before but then she said its ok if he kisses me. and now shes really angry at me. i talked to her and apologised and i guess we worked things out but she doesnt really talk to me now and she posted these bulletins on myspace, they were harsh and i asked her if its about me but she said its not .. but i get this feeling they are about me. she said that she talked to the guy and theyre just gonna be good friends for now. i think im starting to like the guys but i only met him for the first time that night, so i guess i can stop liking him. every time i think about my friend i get this sick feeling in my stomach .. can someone please help me ?
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Well, it kinda depends on the situation. If he kissed you and you didn't kiss back, then it isn't your fault. What you should have done after that is just walk away from him and say "I'm sorry, I have to go to the bathroom" or something to that extent. If you did kiss him back, and then kept talking to him, then your friend has a right to be mad. You just met him that night. She has liked him for a while. The good news is, if she is a good friend she should forgive you. Keep saying that you are sorry. Don't get discouraged when she ignores you. As for the guy, you shouldn't talk to him. I know that you like him, but you've only known him for one night. You would be giving up a lot less than she would. That's what friends do for each other. She is never going to forgive you if you do start talking to him. That would be pretty bitchy. Let her know that you do kind of like him, but that you told him that you didn't or that you aren't going to talk to him. That way she will know that you are giving something up for her. No guy is worth losing a friend. The reality of it is, if you did go for the guy, you would maybe date for a few months, and then go your seperate ways. You will eventually lose the guy, so don't lose your friend to. Make up with her. It will benefit you in the long run.
Good Luck.
Sarah
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Your friend is being a bitch. You couldn't help if he kissed you! And you are allowed to like whoever you want and you don't need her permission. And if the guy chooses you above her then go for it!! I know that your friend is important to her, but friends are there for encouragment. Not restriction.
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