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does he feel the same?
the common love question...
15/f.
i am really confused with the actions of my newest "hook up." sometimes he acts like a dick to me, [jokingly] and we always make fun of each other and then other times he acts like he wants to be my bf or he IS my bf. he always holds my hand, or puts his hand on my thigh when we're together and he'll kiss me in sensual places...like my shoulder, forehead, legs [lol] and random places like my hands too. he cuddles me after a sack session and hold me close and when we're in bed together, i feel this connection like "wow". we are so in rhythym with each other its unbelievable [during sex lol].
ive known him for like 10 years and even my mom says that we're gonna get married since we flirt and playfully fight all the time...but idk how he feels. he says that he cares about me whether or not we hook up but thats pretty much what we are: hookups. he also said "well im glad that you dont like me that way cause it wouldnt work out." im guessing he said that because of our parents...they are best friends and plus, hes like 19 which makes it worse. my mom caught uskissing so we have to really sneak around, but yeah.
sometimes i feel like he wnats to date me and other times i feel like he doesnt. he always compliments on how "pretty" i am but some guys would say anything to get a girl in bed. ive held myself off for months...i didnt just give in to him.
whenever we're alone together i feel like we look so hot together...he's amazingly good looking. and thats another thing...hes really really cocky and its frustrating which makes me dig him more kinda. i just wanna know how he feels without looking like im in love with him...because i really dont think i am. everyone thinks we're dating when they see us together because of the way we act...but im really confused.
i mean he really acts different sometimes. almost like hes serious about being mean. but i think thats just the pretending factor like when you pretend to hate someone when actually you really like them.
should i tell him how i really feel and what i really think?
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Are you familiar with the term "semantics"?
Basically, that means we can argue all day over the meaning of a word, but in the end it doesnt change who is right and who is wrong.
And, in my opinion, you dont have to have 3 new partners a week to be "sleeping around"
My definition of "sleeping around" is that you have sex with little meaning attached to it and you sleep with whomever tells you what you want to hear to get sex.
At 15 you are measuring your relationships as "this is the only guy Ive slept with in two weeks" and refer to him as "your latest hook up"
Ill say this in simple terms.
You are too sexually active for your age. You have devalued sex into something less than what it should be and you are having way too much sex and sleeping around way to much for a 15 year old. You are not a player sweetie, youre a 15 year old who is easy and guys definitely like that about a 15 year old.
The fact is, that you are too young and naive to even begin to understand that you are being taken advantage of.
By the way, Im reporting you for your question's response. I gave you an honest and truthful reply, and your response was vicious because I did not tell you what you wanted to hear. I think that a little vacation from this website will do you some good.
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