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How do I get my crush to ask me out???
15/f
Well there's this guy that likes me and I really like him, but I don't think he knows that so that's why he won't ask me out. He would flirt with me...one time he tried asking me out, but that went all wrong...so I don't know what I should do to drop some hints that I like him and that I want him to ask me out. There's no way that I'm asking him out..lol..plus he's the type of guy that prefers it if he can ask the girl out. I'm usually a shy person...so he probably thinks I'm like hard to get or something...well at least I don't have to play hard to get..lol..I am hard to get...Anyway, thanks for any advice you have for me!
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Maybe he is afraid to ask you out because of the reasons that everything went wrong the last time, like you said. I don't know what that was, but maybe it made him shy to ask you out. People hate rejection, girls and guys. Maybe you could drop some hints about what kind of guy you would say yes too if he asked you out, and just make sure those hints "match him perfectly". Als make sure that you use the word special a lot, like say "I would date a guy that is special and treats me as nice as you do." Or say "I wish I could meet a guy as nice as you are, I'd go out with him in a second." Maybe that's too confusing and might give him the wrong impression.
Are you two friends, can you say something like, "I would rather go out with someone that I was friends with first, that is why I am glad that we are friends." Hey I like that one, don't
you? Then work to become good friends, making him feel comfortable around you, and that will make him ask you out.
Let me explain, you see how nervous you are about the whole thing, that you have to ask for advice on how to proceed....well all kids (even adults) are nervous when it comes to affairs of the heart. So if you can make him feel comfortable, like he won't get turned down, then he will ask you out. That will also make him want to stick around. People don't stay long in relationships with people who make them nervous.
I hope this helps, good luck to both of you
Michele
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