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my ex bf


Question Posted Thursday August 9 2007, 12:25 am

Okay.
I'm going to try to make this as short as I can.
I'm going to be a senior this year.
I met this boy Robby when I was in 6th grade.
In the summer going into 10th grade we started talking and becoming better friends.
Well we never officially when out but we talked every day and hung out all the time and pretty much acted like it.
Well he told me he loved me and blah blah..
Then he goes and gets this girlfriend randomly.. well it took me so long to get him to talk to me.. then my friend flipped out on him and then I just gave up and then he broke up with her.
Well then about a year ago.. we started going out officially.
Everything was amazing.. except the little thing that he told me he lost his virginity in 2nd grade which I know is a lie.. but he didn't try to do ANYTHING with me.. we only kissed.. and I do not understand why.
But anyways.. everything was good and about 8 months into our relationship his best friend saw me at the mall and his friend gave me the phone and he was on it and he was mad because I was supposed to hang out with him. So I said i didnt have my phone and when I saw it my phone later he called 107 times. I told him we needed a break after that.
Well he told me he loved me and that he'll wait.
So 2 weeks went by.. and now he has another gf. And after ALL that I don't see what went wrong it seemed like he liked me a lot.
Now he wont talk to me.. I'm sooo upset! I don't know how to get him to talk to me.


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volleyballgamer answered Friday November 16 2007, 10:09 pm:
Oh wow. That totally sucks! Hmmm, well I've been through the same problem and he probobly doesn't want to talk to you because well, I can't find better words but he might feel like this is his way of "punishing" you for telling him that you guys needed a break. He could be trying to make you jealous by getting a girlfriend too! My ex did this too me too. And he didn't talk to me for about a year. But I talked to my friends a lot, and it turned out my friends were good friends with him and told him everything I said. Which sort of sucked, but it got him to talk to me.
Now, I'm not saying you should do that, unless well you want to. The way I see it is, A. You could walk straight up to him and be like "Why don't you talk to me anymore." He'll either ignore you or say "what are you talking about.." then walk away. You could think of something to say to him, possibly better then that. B. If you still like him, you could tell him how you feel, I mean seriously people don't say "I love you" adn then two weeks later they don't.
Unless they had like no feelings at all or they're fast at mending their "broken heart" or whatever. C. You could see it like this, Your a senior, its your last year, you shouldn't think about some guy the whole year, maybe date around, find some new people to hang out with and maybe he'll talk to you. You could also call him, text him, send him an email or in person tell him how you feel.
I don't know if you still like him or not. You could possibly talk to his new girlfriend then she'll defidently be like "She talked to me" then he'll totally talk to you and be like "why'd you talk to my girlfriend" then that'll give you a good chance to think of something good to say that sums it all up so he'll listen. Well Sorry if this is too long, but I really hope it helps and I gave you an Idea! Good luck!!! :]]]]

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