well..my ex i dated him when i was young and i was so stupid i messed things up he used to hate me well dislike me i guess but then we became friends again and im older now that i relized what i had and now i regert it cause i miss him..but now he has found him someone else they have been together awhile and he relly loves her me and him talks every now and then i have told him so many time s to come to my house and see me cause i miss him and he said he dk cause he dont want his woman mad but but he came by today and i wasnt home so i called him he said u know anyone for my cousin he is single and wants someone and i said my frined theycan meet she is here and i said u should relly come see me tommrow and he said well only for my cousin so what do you think i still have strong feelings for him id do anything to be with him again he is the man of my dreams and i think he knows that but i mean he showwd up outta the blue today he said he was in town lettin his cousin shop
ks1985 answered Wednesday August 8 2007, 4:48 am: It doesn't sound like he is into you anymore, he has a new g/f and has pretty much ignored all of your attempts to have him come over. I think you should just save yourself heartbreak and move on. Nothing good ever comes from trying to break up another couple, you say that he has a new girlfriend that he really loves. If he truly loves her then he isn't going to want to be with you especially if you did something bad enough in your previous relationship to make him hate you. [ ks1985's advice column | Ask ks1985 A Question ]
ComplexMind answered Tuesday August 7 2007, 6:25 am: Be his friend. Show him that you've grown up. It's doubtful he trusts you right now. And you can't snap your fingers for him to like you again, so just wait it out. Be his friend, show him that you can be a good friend, then maybe you can convince him that you can be a better girlfriend.
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