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weird feelings
im 13 and theres this guy in my class ( lets call him bgrove) ive known bgrove since kindergarden and our friendship is ok. tonight ive just had this feeling inside me thats telling me i should ask bgrove out to be my boyfriend but the thing is i dont have any feeligns for him at all. i only like him as friend
so my question is what are these feelings and why am i having them
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I think you DO have feelings for this person but aren't allowing yourself to accept that fact in your head. If your gut is telling you to ask him out and it's doing it a lot it means you ought to. As far as the two boys fighting it's not about you.
They will not think you are doing it to make one or the other jealous. Even if they did it would soon be sorted out when the truth is told and indisputable. If you want him go after him. The feelings are normal, it's hormones and a serious crush developing.
It's all fine. You're having them as you're beginning to see what it's like to really like and or love someone of the opposite sex. Friends who are guys may now seem more like dating material. It's just your eyes and your mind waking up to the fact you're going to have these feelings.
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You may find comfort in bgrove that makes you feel "safer" with him. While bmiller does the opposite.
It could be unconcious revenge towards bmiller or you may like bgrove more than you think. :P
Try not to do anything drastic (like asking bgrove out) until you know what your feelings mean. You're really the only one that can learn the true meaning of your feelings.
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