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kissing
okay so last night i saw my friend that i haven't seen in a month. i've become very close to him and we can basically tell each other everything and we do. well last night we were watching a movie with some of our other friends and we kissed. he kept kissing my cheek and then i'd kiss his and then he'd kiss close to my lips so the next time i'd just kiss him on the lips. at first he didn't really do anything but then he kissed me back. we always cuddle and like he does cute stuff when we hang out just like holds me when we're standing and stuff. and also when he was away he would hint at like kissing me when i he came home and afterwards he texted me asking if i had fun and i said yep you? and he said he had fun. but like he hasn't really texted me too much today. how do i find out if it was okay or if it was awkward for him. i'm nervous to just ask so what are ways to bring up the conversation?
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It's best to bring up the conversation casually if both of you are a bit shy of the topic. It sounds like he was trying to bring up the topic by saying "it was fun" ... you could reciprocate by saying "I liked the movie" if you don't want anything to go further... or you could say "I liked the movie. I also like the other parts of the (afternoon/ evening)" and then it's his cue to say "me too".
Was the hinting at kissing before or after the kiss? If it was after, most likely he has been trying, quite hard, to bring it up. I guess, before you say anything, you have to figure out how you feel about this whole situation. You already have some sort of unsaid thing going on between you, and if you want anything to happen, if you want to be his girlfriend or WHATEVER you want, all you really have to do is say all that is currently unsaid.
On bringing up the conversation, remember the things he said to start the conversation/ things that could potentially start it. Or, if feel ready to tell him you like him, I'd do so. Another approach is to just let things keep happening. Ask him out subtly or not so subtly... asking a guy alone to the movies is pretty much a ticket with "I like you" written on it. You don't really need a formal formal conversation as long as you have some way of telling him how you feel and some way to allow him to reciprocate. Sounds like, in a lot of ways, that kiss was just that.
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