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i need advice!
ok, well, hi erin. i am a girl first of all. so, this guy at the swimming pool/ country club that i go to really likes me. he is like 14 and i am like 13. he like stares at me all the time. he is a lifguard and he is suppper nice. i see him everyday because i am on the swimteam there and he is one of the coaches. he is usually really busy and he never has the time to talk to me. but well still got to talk. well, anyways. i went on vacation for like 3 weeks and when i came back, he was all over one of my friends, but she is not that close of one and he hardly even noticed me. i know i don't own him or anything but then when our season ended for swimming, we had a banquet. so, i was there and he always kept talking to the girl he liked i guess, and he kept in looking at me to see if i was looking. it almost seemed as if he was playing hard to get. i took a few glances at them, but all they were doing is talking, nothing else. i went to the pool a couple weeks later. like always, he was on duty right when i got there. when i was walking up the sidewalk to get to the gate he turned around to see who was coming in. and then he saw me and he just kept staring with idk a blank look in his eye. so me and my friends found a seat quick and jumped in the pool really fast. he just kept staring at me the whole time i was swimming. i tried to ignore him, but all i could think about was him, how can i get over this guy?
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how you can get over him is by maybe spending some time at OTHER places with your friends or family.
OR you could try to meet other guys. dont try to make him jealous if you do that though.
maybe he was trying to make YOU jealous when he started hanging out with your other friend, and it souds like he likes you alot.
meeting other guys would probally get him off of your mind, and also expand your social life.
thanks =]
erin.
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