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Camp. :(
I'm going away for cheerleading camp in a few days, and it's going to be a three over night, four day kind of thing. Thing is, I don't talk too much (I mean, I do, but I'm not like.. good friends with anyone.) And I'm scared I'm going to get really home sick.
I'm scared because I was doing this summer school thing where I could have gotten a scholorship, and it was for a week at a time, for six weeks, and I was absolutely MISERABLE. I talked and all.. but once again, I wasn't really good friends with anyone, or anything. And I'd cry every night (and I can usually handle some pretty bad stuff, just let me say that much..) and I ended up quitting after like, four days. I couldnt' even eat right.. then, once I got home I could eat fine. (I know they had amazing food, beacuse the first day I ate there I loved it). But yea..
I'm just really scared, I don't want a repeat of the college campus thing, and I want to be able to talk to everyone, but I seem like a dork every time I try to talk. Everyone's got their little group of friends, and my friends I cheered with last year didn't make the team. :(
I'll be fine with the work, but when it comes to all the free time, I think I'm going to end up breaking down :(
It honesty makes me nervous/sad, just thinking about it..
Help, please!?
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aww. i'm sorry. i think that this might be a little different.
majority of cheerleaders are loud. i'm not, unless i'm with my friends, but i'm working on it.
honestly, just try finding someone that doesn't seem to talk as much and start a conversation.
or just tell yourself, the first person i see that doesn't look like a complete jerk i'm going to talk to.
chances are they will be reallyy nice and introduce you to some friends.
if your more comfortable with someone that hangs around with one person, look for someone like that.
if you would rather get to know a lot of people, look for a group of girls.
just be confident, and be yourself.
once you get to know a couple of people i'm sure you'll be fine.
you just need to make the first move, unless someone else does.
don't stress too much and try to talk to people.
i hope i helped at least a little. have fun!
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