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are girlfriends a distraction??
13/f
me and my boyfriend have been together over 2 years (yeah i know, that's a long time!!). we're really close and spend a lot of time together. well anyway, some of his friends have recently broken up with their girlfriends because they want to "focus on football." they say they don't want a girlfriend because girls cause too much distraction. so now i'm really worried that this is going to influence my boyfriend, and that he might get the same idea. i love him to death and i dont know what i'd do without him. i don't feel like i distract him from anything... i support him in football and help him with homework, etc... but is there anything i can do to make sure he doesnt feel that way?
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Tell him how you are feeling! Recently my boyfriends friend broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years and he was suddenly the 'single man'
I thought it might have put ideas in my boyfriends head too.
I talked to him about it and he told me that everyone thinks differently! You and your boyfriend have been together a long time and I am sure that he is not going to throw it all away because he wants to 'focus' on his sport.. especially if you support him in it.
Perhaps just tell him that you feel a bit insecure about the whole issue of this, he'll understand!
Good luck :)
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Talk to him.
Tell him what's on your mind. you guys have been together for a long time, and it seems that it would be a waste just to throw it all away just for football, so if you love him and he loves you, he won't ditch you.
Vanyn
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