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ok...what if your friend doesn't want to be your friend anymore because they no you like them? that would crush my heart for him to not be my friend anymore...help...what do i do???
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Hmm- well since I've been through this before- I'll just let you in on what happened after she found out for the 4th time on Valentine's Day last year [2006]. So I told my best friend Leah that I liked her- and she just couldn't take it anymore. She told me that I needed to "get over [her]". Harsh- I know. So basically we didn't talk for like 3 months after that. It was torture; not being able to talk to the girl I liked, MY BEST FRIEND, for 3 months. Seriously- nothing has been as bad as that for me- except the death of my great-grandmother- but that's another story.
Anyway- somehow- it worked out and we are STILL friends to this day. I have no idea how.. seriously- we've been through a lot together- and I'm not just saying that because I want to sound cool or anything. We really have been through a lot. Its a surprise to me that we're still friends- because if I had gone through everything with someone else- I wouldn't still be their friend. Something is special about mine and Leah's friendship.. I haven't quite figured it out.
Alright- sorry for the ranting, but I think its necessary to build up for what I'm about to say.
If they know- well- they know. You can't go back in time and change that they know. But if he finds out and doesn't want to be your friend- you have to accept that. I know- that is probably going to be the WORST ever- but I have BTDT [been there, done that] and that is the only plausible thing left to do. He may not want to stop being friends completely- he may just need some space. That's how Leah was. So- just give him his space until he's ready to talk [remember- this took 3 months for me- it may be more or less]. When they are ready to talk [if he even wants to] just take it slow and don't seem really desperate. If he never makes an effort to talk to you again- well- truth be told- he probably just can't take it. There are plenty of other guys out there.. trust me =D.
But seriously- the chances of him not wanting to be your friend anymore are slim to none, because if he was that type of person, why would you be friends with him, and why would you like him?
Good luck! If you need further help- my inbox is ALWAYS open. Remember- I'm here to help!
--Jack
(15/m)
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