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what do i do
i met my my girlfriend from smoking weed. after a couple days we started really talking, but she was breaking up with her x and said she cant be my girlfriend. but yet we chilled everyday and got closer and closer..then we got together and so we went out for like 7 months. alot of ppl were telling me that she was using my for my money(have alot) and my weed. but i ignored them casue i knew she did love me. we were always happy except when we were jealous about each other..i mean we were inseparable day in day out..she crash at my house and her mom be blowing my phone and her sister who come stright from church!
then she goes to some young life church thing in new york leaves me in new jersey...tell me on the phone the god doesnt see me in her plans any more. just cuts me out of her life liek that. still says she loves me but cant hang out with me for a while like a nother month casue when we hang out we cant just be friends..complains that i make this hard but i want to casue i dont want to lose her but she says it cant be the same...now i dont know what to do!
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Okay...heres what you do. Set down and talk to her. Ask her whats REALLY wrong!
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she is probably saying this because young life and the christian religion is very much against drugs. so now that she has gone to a place like that she is trying to be clean. when you are a christian you are supposed to try to stay away from people that could make you "stumble" spiritually. if you are willing, tell her that you are trying to stop smoking weed, and ask her to talk about the transformation she has gone through, and why she believes in the religion she does now. if she sees you are trying to change she may be more likely to talk to you, and if you ask her to talk about god she will certainly talk to you, because christians are supposed to try to bring others ot god. and im not saying you have to conform to her religion. but listening to her talk about it will let you get to spend time with her, and you never know, you may agree with what she has to say.
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