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me and this kid hooked up and we've kept in touch. we really like eachother .. well i really like him and he says he likes me and ive heard hes something of a player, but thats not my problem. he has a drug alcohol and ciggerate problem. He said he was getting sober just for me. hes really important to me. Hes gettin off of drugs, but going thro really bad withdrawels and i dont live near by so its not even like i can run to his house and help him. Hes also getting off alchohol and he says that he needs his ciggs right now to help him get through all of this. The only thing is i havent talked to him in 3 days. He hasn't been home and he hasnt been online. Im really worried. I dont know what to do. He cant go thro this alone, but neither can i. I wood really like to talk to someone whoes been thro this to talk to. Please, anyone.
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i am going through sumthin similar at the mo and let me just say that if you dont hear from him in a few days then you probably wont hear from him again. soz this is the truth and although you prob dont wana hear this i'd say move on if he cant phone or txt you when he will know you are worried about him whether hes ill or not then ad say drop him cause you cant live your life like that.
soz if you are insulted or angry by my answer but I like to be as straight as pos with poeple.
hope i helped and that you find the right person soon.
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This is his personal issue. You can help him through it but in the end this has to be something he does for himself and you should consider.....keeping your distance until he shapes up because it's not healthy or safe for you to be with a guy you think you know really well when it sounds like you don't just because you guys have a little crush on each other. I know it sounds harsh, but if he has all these problems and you're going to be in a relationship with him......you're going to have to carry around a lot of extra baggage. And eventually you're going to get fed up with it. I think you should let him figure out his thing before you consider being in a relationship with him,
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