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Go for it
I come to you because you don't sugarcoat things, and tough love is what I need, everywhere I go - I get sympathy. It doesn't help me. So go for it, make fun of me, be sarcastic and show me how stupid it is feeling the way I do, hopefully - it'll help me get over it.
I was obsessed with the same guy for 3 years (by obsessed I mean I planned our wedding and hacked his email and such..) we weren't dating, we just met once a month basically.
This summer he used me, sexually - he pushed and pushed until I finally caved and did what he wanted me to. He said he cared about me, his actions spoke differently.
Now you'd think after a guy hurts you, you'd fall out of love? I fell deeper.
I want him so badly, I think about him 24/7, I cry so much I almost throw up.
I left a really bad impression on him (i couldnt please him) but he still said "maybe we'll see eachother again in a year or two.."
I hold on to those words and am doing everything I can to make sure in two years, I'll be his dream girl.
Pathetic Pathetic Pathetic.
But I love him, and can't let go of him.
Give it to me - the truth. What do you think of this situation I'm in?
Thanks
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So yeah, sorry this took so long to answer, but I don't come on here very often, and check my inbox even less.
I think the situation you're in is stupid. You're pretty much telling this guy, "You now have the ability to use and abuse me and you have no strings attached." Him being a guy, is going to see this and milk it for everything it's worth. He obviously wants nothing to do with you romantically, so why continue? It's never easy, and I've kind of been in this situation before. I didn't let someone take advantage of me sexually, but I was obsessed with someone for years and she kept talking about me moving to where she lived, us getting together sexually, whatever. It just feeds their need for knowing that someone wants them, even though they'll never pursue. So I really hope by now you've figured this out on your own, but if not, my inbox is always open and I'll make sure to tell you the things you need to hear and get you over this person so that you can move on and find someone who will feel the same way about you that you feel for them.
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