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I'm going out with my first boyfriend, and we're really close and we've been going out for 4 months. Everything is really good, almost perfect, except for one thing: his best friend. He and I had a "sorta thing" 9 months ago. But I'm over that. I'm NOT over the fact that he was my best friend and betrayed me about something totally different...and extremely serious. We haven't been close since. We didn't get along at all. But out of the blue, he asked for my forgiveness...he swears he's changed. But I've heard this before. Yet this time seems different...he's being nice to all my friends after isolating himself from all of us and he;s been begging for a while now. But there's a part of me that still can't trust him. But this is the longest he's begged...Idk what to think. I want to get along with him cause he's my boyfriend's best friend...but idk if I want to go further than that. And I think my parents would be an issue if I decided to be friends with him again...they don't forgive him for hurting me. I'm just confused...please help.
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If you want to try to build a friendship with him again, take things slow. Tell him that your not going to be able to trust him again right off the bat, that it will take some time to trust him again. Just take things slow, and let him know what's going on. If you want to be friends with him be open and honest about what your feeling.
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