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the guy i like smokes
14/f
i like this guy, he says he likes me. hes great. perfect :). one problem...he just told me that he smokes cigarettes...and i dont like it, but i still like him. like, it doesnt bother me enough to stop likin him. he says hes quitting soon though. i mean we still like each other like A LOT but its sooo gross...
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i was pretty mcuh in love with this one guys who smoked weed and ciggarettes, yeah it was gross. but fact of the matter is that you really like him. cigarettes are nasty, but it shouldn't ruin your relationship, unless he's like crazy about them, like smoking all the time.
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If he smokes occassionally, you won't be able to tell that much when you're with him. Ask him to at least brush his teeth, shower, and wear cologne, etc. so he doesn't smell like an ashtray.
If he's an otherwise great guy, give him a chance. You could be missing out on someone great just because they've picked up a bad habit. Don't start smoking just to fit in with him, though. That'd just be pointless..
-LM
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Well, if he likes you as much as he says he does, he'll stop smoking or he'll brush his teeth and chew some gum before he sees you. Cigarettes are gross, and its good that he says he'll quit. Ask him if he wants help quiting. Chewing gum can be a way to stop, or sucking on mints, or getting a stress ball and squeezing it when he wnats to smoke. Let him know about those. Hope I helped! Happy Summer!
-Brina
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