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Its about a boy
ok i like this boy and his friend says he likes me to but he doesnt want to go out with me cause hes afraid that i might get as big as my sister andi dont think i am but h does and idk wat to do plz help me.
sincerely
lost and confused
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This guy is acting like he's 11. Or maybe he is 11. I don't know. Drop him.
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I hope I understand you correctly as I had to re-read your question twice. This guy doesn't want to date you because your sister is plump (big) and he fears you'll become big.
Or is it that by "big" you mean tall? If big means anything else than that you'll need to resubmit your question as the meaning comes across differently than intended.
In both scenarios above the guy is shallow and you need to move on especially if size, looks, hair are all he is considered about. Having said that, if you think he's worth it and he likes you as a friend talk to him yourself, get to know him and tell him what you are after as far as dating goes.
Lay it out for him. If he doesn't want to go out with you at least you'll know why and can then determine if he's friend worthy. But, if people are saying he won't date you based on how your sister looks or fear of how you'll look than move on. He's shallow and sounds like a jerk if that's the case.
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Drop him, honey. A real man would never say something so disrespectful and nasty. That's not only offensive to you but your sister as well. Obviously, he does not like you for your personality. If he did, he wouldn't care about how much you weighed. I don't know you, but I know that no girl deserves that. There are guys EVERYWHERE. He's not special.
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Getting as big as your sister? You mean weight wise? What kind of guy that would be worthy of you would tell you that he doesn't want you to gain any weight? He should love you either way, hun, so weight should not be an issue. If it is an issue that he has with you, then just forget him. Obviously he cares more about looks than personality.
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