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My girlfriend and I have been going out almost a year and lately we haven't had anything to talk about. she always thinks I am mad at her and im not. I love her more than anything, I would do anything for her. she tells me she loves me and I think she does. One reason I think we aren't getting along as well as we used to is because we only get to see each other like twice a week. I like to tell her everything about my day and if something is bothering me she is the first person, really the only person, I tell. But she doesn't ever want to tell me her feelings, she always says that if I don't ask her about his day or how she's feeling she just doesn't think to tell me. I really want some advice on what we can do to become closer to each other again. If you have any suggestions on activities we can do together I would greatly appreciate it. Oh yea, I don't really know if this really matters but we haven't had sex. Does anyone think that would bring us closer. she broke up with me twice in a 3 month period. It completely broke my heart. But I took her back twice and now I am afraid she is going to break up with me again if we don't get closer. she says she is afraid of making the wrong decision. she doesn't understand how I am so sure she is the ONE. How can I explain it to her?
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My advice to you is quite simple. Start actually talking and you'll probably have to take the initiative on everything or she won't make the effort. Personally I think she isn't doing much to try and help the relationship and just wants you to make things work. Try talking to her about whatever may be up to have her feel so distant right now and try to sort any issues. At the end of the day though - you've been together for almost a year. I'm not surprised you've run out of things to say! Sometimes it just means that you have to rely on feelings instead of fun things to stay together. If she keeps splitting up with you, maybe you'd be better off split because the feelings just aren't THAT strong for both of you. a year is a long time, maybe you should try to see some other girls. Try talking and fixing the whole distant thing though. Mainly if that doesn't work though, I don't think you should let a break up hurt you too much, it may be the best thing so you can both broaden to newer things. Hope this helps.
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