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im not sure if this is the right catergorie but still i need to know thngs....
ok well i finger myself but i can't seem to orgasm and i really want to orgasm and feel the plesure...
BUT why cant i orgasm and im only 14 and i have been doing this for a while nw like 2 or 3 months but i can NEVER orgasm and i havnt orgasmed once!!!
i need help strait away!!!
and wht is clit stimulation or somethng?/
and i dnt wnt any sites to go onto!?!
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!
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You will want to read this link and hit body basics internal and external view of the female reproductive system. This will help you know where everything is located and its purpose.
Like the previous poster told you most women do not orgasm from penetration. Mostly they do from clitoral stimulation as the other poster mentioned and told you what is meant by this.
However, I should add if you're all stressed about it and trying to force one rather than allow it to happen naturally you won't be sucessful in experiencing one. Just let yourself go and see what happens as it occurs naturally.
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Most women don't get their orgasms from vaginal stimulation (inserting in the vaginal opening). It can happen, but it's pretty difficult, and for some women it doesn't happen at all.
Usually a female orgasm comes from the stimulation of the clitoris- which has nothing whatsoever to do with the area that you're talking about. That's why you're not getting one. =)
To stimulate the clitoris, you first need to find it- that is if you haven't already. It's that strip of flesh that runs down the vaginal vertically (in other words, length-wise, not across). Most women have a little thing that hangs out, this is the skin that protects the clitoris because it's VERY sensitive. So it has like a little hood that covers it. If it were exposed all the time it would hurt.
Anyway, once you find 'the spot'- you will know by feeling around this strip- There will be one particular spot that feels really good. Once you get there, DON'T MOVE FROM THAT SPOT. Keep moving your fingers back and forth (side to side) over that area of the strip. The feeling will start getting better and better until eventually you climax. May take some practice to get there and get down the technique that's right for you.
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