|
femalefriends or guyfriends?
hey
14 - F
well a lot of my stupid femalefriends are getting mad at me for the most ridiculous reasons. so i'm down to even less femalefriends. i'm cool with that cause girls suck cause they cause so much drama.
well. i realized that i am pretty attractive, so it's a LOT easier for me to make guyfriends. it's just that, i have like, five guyfriends [only two female friends, haa] & like, they just feel sorta uncomfortable when i talk about other guys. & no, they all like another girl, not me. like, i say, "he's sooo hottt," & my friend is like, "ok..." & i don't WANT to make him uncomfortable but i can't really talk to my femalefriends about my crush & all.
so, i'm asking,
HOW DO I GET MY GUYFRIENDS TO LOOSEN UP AROUND ME? make them less uncomfortable? let them know they can talk about ANYTHING with me?
i'm not the type of girl who says, "ew" to everything cause i don't find many things gross, either.
thanks so much in advance :]
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well the truth is that guys mature a lot slower than girls. Most guys, at your age, don't want to hear about how another guy is hot (unless he's into boys). There's not a whole lot you can do about them being weird about you talking about other guys.
They also may be uncomfortable because they may like you in a romantic way (even if they say they don't). Guys don't always like to tell a girl face to face that they like her because they're afraid of rejection.
Eventually they will loosen up around you and get used to the things you say & do. You can't be making them that uncomfortable if they're sticking around!
]
More Questions: |