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I recently met this guy. he's great; he's amazing. he's everything a guy should be. I've really grown to like him, first as a friend, and now more then a friend. we talk a lot on the phone and I see him about once a week on avg. because he lives about an hour away. He doesn't know, but suspects that I like him. but, he acts like he likes me too. we were watching a movie and we were cuddling on the couch, and he was stroking my hair and stuff and he's just very touchy with me (not in a sexual way). he told my friend that he thinks I like him, but he didn't say anything about it being mutual. he has a girlfriend but he doesn't even act like he likes her, at all. I like him a lot and I don't know what to do about this situation. I don't want to ask him if he likes me, or tell him that I like him. should I wait it out, or should I tell him something? thanks!
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He has a girlfriend. That should give you a huge sign. First of all, flip the situation. Lets say he was your boyfriend & was acting this way to another girl. How would you feel? Probably not too great. You shouldn't make a move on him if he has a girlfriend. That's wrong & not respectful to her, if you dislike her or not. Since you like him, its probably difficult for you to not do those things with him. Like cuddling & being affectionate. Mention it to him. Explain your feelings & how you don't think he should be acting that way if he has a girlfriend. Also, you might want to take his actions into account. If he's acting flirty & touchy towards you, what makes you think if you guys were dating, he wouldn't do that with someone else? Yes, maybe he does like you a bit more than his gf, but even so, that doesn't mean he'll change his ways just for you or any other girl. If he truly wanted to be with you, why hasn't he broken up with her yet? I'm definitely not saying these things to make you feel bad, but you should think realistically. It's just to give you a few ideas on what might be going on. Sure, he could be a great guy & is just confused with his feelings or he could be playing both of you. You should take both sides of the situation into account. Talk to him. Ask him how he feels & why he flirts with you. Explain your feelings & ask for his. You can go from there & see if you guys should be friends or more than friends.
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