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Fights fights fights...
okay ive been dating this guy for a while and i love him more than anything in this world but for some reason i start fights with him over the stupidest things like his driving and stuff...its dumb but i want to know how to solve my fighting obbsession
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Omg i do that with my boyfriend ALL THE TIME. We always have fights then end up cuddling each other and kissing and saying sorry.
Before you start arguing or fighting, stop and think to yourself. Think "is it really worth fighting over?". Sometimes you just need to keep silent and soon you'll forget about it. It's just about self control. You need to control yourself when your saying things. Say the things your going to in your head first before you say them and think how he will feel if you said it to him. Put yourself in his shoes.
Theres no medication or therapy for these things, you just need to control what you say and how you act.
Believe me, there is so many stupid fights i could have with my boyfriend but if i just stop and think to myself 'is it worth it?' i just think 'no' and stop myself and 10 minutes later i've forgotten all about it.
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