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i dont knwo what to do.
im 16/f and my boyfriend is 19/m. we have been together for 11 months now. i am a virgin, and plan to stay that way until i get married, but my boyfriend on the other hand isnt. he always tells me he loves me and will wait for as long s i need. but we still fool around. but the problem is, i dont do much foolin around. cause idk what to do. i mean he gets blue balls all the time and i feel bad because i dont know how to fix that problem..i meani know a hj or a bj would do the job but i dont know how to give a hj or a bj. please help me...he gives me pleasure all the time, i want to return the favor.
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If you try things and communicate you'll be just fine, this happens to most girls, me included.
Preferences are different for all girls but it's not at all difficult and most guys will help you out. Hope I helped you.
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First, its going to take experience more than anything. Every guy is different, likes different things, and has different areas that excite more than others. Only by exploring are you going to find them.
Im not going to give you specific blowjob instructions. If you want to try it, then just try it. He knows you dont know what you're doing, tell him to feel free to give you a little guidance. Often.
Remember that gentle touch is often the most sensual.
Touch him all over. Neck, back, shoulders, chest, stomach, even his legs can be erogenous if you touch them the right way. Be soft and gentle.
Types of touch to try.
Kissing- Kissing is a unique sensation. It can be varied from quick pecks on his shoulders to softer kisses on his neck, and its always hot when you use a tiny bit of tongue while kissing.
Rubbing - Fingertips, or palms of your hands for more firm touch, can be amazingly relaxing.
Nails - Running your nails lightly along his back can raise goosebumps.
Licking - You dont want it to be very wet. You arent wetting him down,but a light tongue touch can be very, very sexy.
The entire body can be a turnon if rubbed or touched the right way, even with the right attitude. Make him feel like he turns you on and show him that you are turned on and he will love it, and it doesnt really matter what you do, he will enjoy it all.
And once again, dont be afraid to try anything. Even if you get technical instructions (this isnt the best website for it) you are still going to have no experience. Everyone has to start somewhere, so just start when you feel comfy and watch the teeth.
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okay...
if you want to wait until your married then wait.
just becuase a boy cant "keep his pants on" and wait, is his problem.
and you know theres condoms but u still gotta be ready for a baby "incase" and condoms are only 70% protectable..... and so if he got you pregnant how would you tell your parents? and how would you take care of the baby?
and think about it. hes probally had sex with other girls before. and when it comes to sex. your probally just another girl. save your first time w/ your "HUSBAND"
i really hope you will actually think about doing this...
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If I were you, I would read up about how to give a hj or bj online. You may be amazed by how much you find..if that doesnt work than just tell your boyfriend you dont have that much expierence, and he will most likely coach you along.
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