okay so i have a big problem. i was dating a guy who was 22/m and im 16/f. and i noticed on myspace some girls started commenting him. and he would comment their pics telling them that they're beautiful. and he commented my pics saying the exact same thing. i thought that was kinda weird and i told him that i didn't like ho he was telling other girls that. and i have a feeling he's with another girl. and i broke up with him. this happened 3 times but this time when i broke up with him he said that he didn't want to talk to me ever again and i was hurt. and i wanted to know that was it right that i broke up with him because he seemed like a player or was i just over reacting and got a little bit jealous?
Additional info, added Thursday July 26 2007, 3:09 pm: oh and he never calls me and i always call him. and he only tells me that im beautiful or sexy or that he loves me on myspace and this hurts me alot. and in person i tell him i love him and then he'll tell me that he loves me. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AskJR answered Thursday July 26 2007, 4:49 pm: First, the age difference is an issue. You're still a teen and he's a man, not a teen.
Maybe if you were 21 and he was 27, it'd be alright.
This is one issue of him telling you he didn't want to talk to you again. He is a player. A 22 year old player. He has "women" he's checking out, and knows you are a teenage, thus more immature, and also "jealous."
Get over him. Let it go. Don't waste your time visiting his profile and feel the hurt again.
xsummerl0vee answered Thursday July 26 2007, 3:21 pm: in my opinion, i would have broken up with him too. personally, i wouldn't want any boyfriend of mine going around telling other girls that they are beautiful or gorgeous. he should only be telling ME that, no one else. he can talk to girls, but he shouldn't be talking to them like that. also if i was 16 and he was 22, that would definitley not be a good sign. the fact that he never calls you first probably wasn't good either - he should want to call you and want to talk to you, not wait for you to do it first. i think you deserved better than him anyways. i think you did the right thing =] [ xsummerl0vee's advice column | Ask xsummerl0vee A Question ]
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