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i love you?
My boyfriend kind of spazzed on me when I told someone else that I loved them. He got so upset and started to hurt himself over it. I told one of my BEST FRIENDS that I loved her! My best friend! Because in the past few days we got closer.. I may have gone out with girls in the past but since I'm with him, I only have eyes for HIM. My bff has a boyfriend too and she's really attached to the guy.
What can I do to make my boyfriend see that I won't turn all lesbian on him? I'm very open minded and whatever happens, will happen.. But I told him I'm straight or whatever. Because when I was openly Bi, he would worry.
But when I'm in a relationship with someone.. I don't go out looking at everyone else, you know?
It's not like I seriously mean I love you to her. We have been joking around for the past 2 years.. Isn't that understandable?
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well your boyfriend really cares about you or somthing but tell him that you love all of your friends in a friendly way and u love him in a bf way
and tell him it doesnt mean anything its just a friendly love
like u love her only as a friend
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Maybe you should sit him down and talk to him about it but thats all i can say i mean that should work.
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It is perfectly understandable! This may sound like a dumb question, but did you explain to him that its an on going joke? If he still doesn't believe you, then maybe you should consider breaking it off with this guy. A very important part of a relationship is trust and unless you have given him a reason not to trust you, then he shouldn't be so paranoid. You said that he hurt himself over this? That worries me. If he reacts that way to something so small, I am afraid to think of what he would do when a real problem arises. It sounds like your boyfriend has some serious issues that are too big for you or him to deal with. I would suggest encouraging your boyfriend to go to a psychologist or get some professional help for the self mutalation problem.
Hope this helps!
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