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i cant stand my grandma and i dont even know why i have such
Ok so i have this problem and i dont even completely understand my problem but i cant stand my grandma everything about i just hate everything she says does just everything she lives with my my mom my sister and my dad and all she does all day is smoke drink coffee watch baseball goes on the computer eats and sleeps thats all she does she never leaves the house she yells at me and my friends when we go outside because my dad says we can and then she tells us we cant she's not my mom she cant me what i can and cannot do i cant stand her she always gets mad at me because i have an attitude
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I agree with the other person. Maybe you haven't spent much quality time with her. Plan 1 whole day where you and her just hang out together. What does she like to do for fun? If you don't know, ASK HER!! I think the reason why she is being so mean around you is because you never really talk to her. Spend time around her and get to know her more. Ask her what she likes to do for fun. If she doesn't know, then take her out somewhere. Dress up really fancy and maybe give her a make-over or hair-do and then both of you can go out to eat and discuss things, or maybe to a museum or shopping, movie, park etc. etc. etc.
Just be nice to her. I know it kills to pretend to be nice to people. But just pretend like you are in a live tv show and if you be nice to her, you can win 1 million dollars. ha ha. that's what I always think of. But seriously, just pretend to be nice and you'll see what good things can happen.
I wish you the best of luck
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Well you know everybody has family problems, and grandparents can be a little over bearing. I'm sure she has good intentions, and as far as her not being able to tell you what to do, she's your grandmother and you should respect her. If your mom and dad say one thing and she says another then you should go to your parents and have them talk with her to establish some bounderies.Even though she does not do anything all day to you, that may be fun for her, and have you guys ever thought of having a family outing. Go to a park, or out to diner or somthing where you can get to know her better. Bottom line is your parents and grandparents deserve respect and so do you. But someone has to take the first step to bridge the gap in your family, maybe it can start with you.
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