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this kid is practically stalking me
last week this kid that i just met two weeks ago confessed he likes me but he has a girlfriend and i don't like him. i told him i don't like him and i wouldn't go out with him even if he didn't have a girlfriend. he always messages me on aim and he's called my phone twice. now he always visits me at work and always try to talk to me. he'll even interrupt other people talking to me just so he can talk to me.he wants to hang out just us "as friends" and i told him i'd think about it...but i won't do it. it's driving me nuts. i need him to back off. i need to say something to him thats subtle but to the point. i don't want to be too harsh and say "get away you creepy stalker" but something along those lines.
PLEASE HELP ME IM GOING CRAZY!!
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Try to talk to him in person. If you are scared that he'll do something to you, go with your older brother/sister, an older cousin, your mom, ect. Just tell him 'I do not want to be associated with you.' If he still insists on visiting/talking to you, threaten to call the police on him. Stalking can lead to even worse things. He can like show up at your house at 3 in the morning just to see you or something. Take action before it's too late.
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This is kind of a hard situation, since you want him to back off, but you don't want t ohurt his feelings. I would talk to him, calmly, face to face. Explain to him that you need your space and that he's smothering you. Explain to him that you're not interested in a relationship, but maybe a friendship. But tell him that this friendship would only work out if he gave you some breathing room. Let him know that YOU will come to HIM when you're ready for a friendship. Also, tell him that calling you and im'ing you are just making your want for a friendship with him fade away. Tell him you want a friend who isn't so clingy, and more independent. Good Luck!
-Laura. (15-f)
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