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omg boys.
ok so my boyfriend is 17, weve been together a little over a year. and like were promised to each other and the whole nine yards. well, usually hes the type to call me 5 times a day everyday. this wknd i barely heard from him at all. i havent seen him in a week either. we were supposed to hang saturday but he left me a msg sayin nvm that hes goin to his brothers to spend the night. but it turns out he didnt go. well he went sunday instead. and came back and was tellin me a lil about it. so it was him, his bro & his gf, and this other girl whos my age [16]. so they all hung out and whatever and they were watchin a movie and my bf was layin in the floor and this girl was on the couch but then she got down to lay in the floor w/ him till she went to bed. well last week i invited him to go to the beach with me next wednesday - saturday although i told him its not a SURE thing but a probably. well today he says hes goin to florida like next sunday-tuesday, because his bro & his gf are takin this other girl back home soo hes goin too and i guess theyre stayin at her house for three days? and he cant go w/ me because thats too many days off work. so i was on his myspace and see they were talkin and hes sayin how it sucks sooo bad that she has to leave but hes glad he gets to go with them to take her back [this was today, but before he told me hes was goin with them] and askin when she'll get to come back and stuff. and shes all in aggreement and everything. and just GRR. so im the jealous type which he knows but i try sooo hard not to let it show as i dont want to cause probs and end up breakin up and stuff. i guess im thinkin the worst in this case but i mean do i have a right to be upset here? bc i guess he noticed the tone in my voice that i got kinda upset when he said hes goin with them instead of me so hes all "dont be mad at me" and blah blah blah. ive already had a rlly hard wknd which he is aware of so this was just icing on the cake. i mean, idk, i just need some input....
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He probably has a crush on this girl or thinks she is really cool. But here is the thing. She lives out of state, so it really isnt anything to worry about. At least he told you about the girl. It isnt like he tried to hide it. It would have been a problem if he didnt even mention this girl and you found out. So cool your nerves before you lose him because of your jealous ways.
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I'd be really upset too if I were you. But I'm not sure that him and his brother's gf are like hitting on eachother or anything. They could just be becoming friends because i mean- it's not like she's single or anything... It seems like he's trying to become her friend because she's his brother's gf. But the opposite could be true... he could like her.
as i was reading this i couldn't help thinking "it's going to end soon... they'll break up." and well, if this boy means that much to you that you don't want to break up then don't- maybe wait and see if this phase passes?
but if you're mad enough at him then go ahead and do it but maybe before you do that you could ask him what's been up with him lately...
but he seems like an asshole for doing that to you.
i hope i helped.
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