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i cheated on my bf. i admitted to it. but he keeps thinking theres more. but really there isnt. and he wont ebelieve me. he saids itll never be the same again no matter how much he wants it to be... i told him i was sorry and everything else about how i regretted it. but he keeps saying how much i hurt him and he cant look at it the same. i dont know if i shuld just let the whole thing go and just stop talking to him , cause obviously im getting no where. or keep trying. i believed when you loved someone you should overcome an obstacle, but he wont believe me and he wont overcome it.
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if he really knows you, he should believe that theres nothing else youve done and if you let it go he might think it over and might let it go too.
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If you love someone, you shouldn't cheat on them.
I don't blame him at all for being hurt and not trusting you at all. You ruined that and you know it. You need to take into considerations HIS feelings, not just yours.
Give him time, and if he doesn't want you back, then so be it. You need to suffer the consiquence to your actions.
This probably isn't what you want to hear, but it is the truth. I have been in a situation like this. I know that begging and saying sorry just won't work, it is not that easy. Let him think over his options.
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if you love someone then its worth the fight, so either fight for him or giveup.you should tell him how you feel about him.how you would feel if you two broke up.
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well i'm not saying cheating is right, or anything like that but it sounds like you are really sorry for doing it, and your man needs to know that everyone makes mistakes and your not perfect. If he won't let it go and move on then he might really not be worth it. Tell him at least u were truthful about it and didn't lie or keep it a secret. So i give you props for that and he should too. Tell him that if he can't let it go, then you don't know how much longer you can take of the relationship and being reminded everyday that you made a mistake. Even though you were in the wrong in this situation, he still doesn't have a right to keep bringing it up and keep this one thing in mind...."dwelling on the past, does nothing for the future" make sure you tell your man that. GOOD LUCK!
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