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im loosing it!
OK.. so.. lets start with saying i got involved with someone that i knew wasnt guna be around forever..and you told them and urself you werent guna get attached.. and they agreed that they wudnt either.. but a couple weeks go by and your totally head over heels for this person.. and they are for you.. but yet again.. they arent gona be around much longer.. not that they arent guna b around for support.. its that they arent guna b around physically anymore.. they are moving you cud say..and i didnt think it would be hard to let go because i have someone else to fall back on that i cud b with after.. its hard to explain but im hoping you get it.. well like i was saying.. i didnt wana get attached but i did and now I dont know how to cope with them moving.. because we got so close so fast.. any ideas of how i can let them go easier? or what i should do to tell them that im feeling this way?
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Wow, that's an interesting situation, But you shouldn't promise something you don't truely know will happen.I know this may sound impossible, But you should try to let go sooner.It will be easier so that when he leaves, it won't be so hard.You obviously are making it harder on yourself to let go.Talk to him about it and see what happens,But I really suggest you moving on.I know you aren't really feeling good about this , But we all know that you have to let go sooner or later.You need to let it all out and tell him how you feel, either that be on the phone or in person.You need closure with him and it has to be before he goes.Make sure you end with good terms and keep in touch.Maybe moving on to that other guy you were talking about.It takes time and you need to start now.Hope I helped.Keep me updated btw. :]
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