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I need advice I know that my best friend and I always are fighting and she is always bossing me around with my stuff and her's what should I do should I stay friends or stop being freinds
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One thing. Stand up for yourself! Next time you think an arugument is coming up, just walk away and say "Screw this." And tell her no every once in awhile ]
Well we all have boundries, and good friends should know better when not to cross them. But maybe she doesn't know. So you have to tell her. I don't need you to tell me about my stuff, or boss me around, that is what I have parents for.
and that is not what friends are for.
Now if she continues, or if you have already said this and nothing changed. then maybe you do need to stop being friends with her.
OR, you could try a different tactic. Ask her why she is so unhappy. And when she says what do you mean, say, well you are always picking on me, and finding fault with me, or telling me what to do, and my mom (or whoever) says that is a sign of a person who is sad inside, and may not like it when other people are happy.
Good luck
Michele ]
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