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he can't keep up with me
22/f
i live with my boyfriend and we're sexually active. lately i've had a really high sex drive and its been going on for about two weeks now. whenever me and my boyfriend have sex i'll normally orgasm but then ten minutes later i want to have sex again and my boyfriend is always too tired to do it. so i normally go and masturbate. i don't want to masturbate if i have a boyfriend. what can i do to make him last longer or what can i do to calm my hormones after sex?
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1) Build him up to it. Sometimes guys take warming up too. If you spend a while turning him on before the sex begins hes going to be more aroused.
2) Give him a little time in between. About 5 minutes. Especially if he has an orgasm himself.
3) Reseduce him. Let him lay there exhausted and just have fun with him. Play with him, rub him, kiss him all over. Get him aroused again (which is thankfully easy to tell with guys, youre lucky =p) and just get him back in the mood.
4) I cant think of a guy Ive met who would object to laying on his back and having his girlfriend do the work. This can be an extension of #3
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If I were you, I'd report the user below me. I checked his column earlier today, and it made me sick to see how immature he was about every answer he'd ever given.
But to possibly help with your question- there's nothing wrong with masturbating, even if you do have a boyfriend. But, if you really want to calm yourself down after sex, trying taking a shower thats a little colder than usual, that usually does the job.
Or, if you want to make him last longer, you may want to go a little easier on him.
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